going for the "set-up"
So I must recount a somewhat humorous chain of events, at least to me it's funny. So the first week or so I get here, I am getting to know the Grecos, spending some time at their house, and Pam finds out that I am a runner (Pam is the wife of Matt, my boss, the director of the school, and the pastor of IBC, the English-speaking church I attend).
So she tells me that there is this Argentine girl who lives in Cordoba (kind of far away from Buenos Aires) who is also a runner, and is really a great gal who really loves the Lord. This is into the 2nd hour of knowing Pam. Let's not move too slow here folks...
2nd week of school, I get an email from Matt that is a forward from Pam. 3 pictures of this nice girl who is a runner, something to the effect of "here is your Cordoba connection, I'm not sure if she hunts, but..." Uh huh. What am I supposed to do with this? She's got a nice smile in the photos...but, uh, uh...
so that was kind of awkward for me. that email.
Flash forward to this past week. I'm in Matt's office on Friday, and he invites Craig and I over for dinner on Saturday. Matt is having people over from the church for pizza who have October birthdays (it's something he does every month). Well, I got to thinking, Craig's birthday is in November, and mine's in June, so I wonder why he was inviting us over. Heck, free food, delicious homemade pizza, I'm in!!
Well, when I walked in, guess who was there? Yep, my "Cordoba connection."
-"Uh, hi, how are you, do you know that I'm only here because Pam is trying to set us up and not provide me with wonderful nourishing pizza?"
I didn't really say that, but was really thinking it.
It was fine the rest of the night, and I actually didn't get to talk very much to Mary. She did seem very nice, but like I said, I didn't really get to know her that much because we didn't get to talk much. I just tried to focus on the pizza, because I just felt somewhat awkard and quite shy actually.
I do appreciate the thoughtfulness of Pam to try and help me out with these things. It got me thinking though, arranged marriages seem like they'd be uber-awkward for the ones being set-up. That's my thought for the day:
arranged marriages must be really awkward





